Queen lmao

And he was the typical trad manosphere guy we hear this over and over every time . I want a trad wife and I hate working women but he complains she doesn’t earn any money when she dropped her career .. isolated her from her friends and family and calls her useless constantly. Damned if you do damned if you don’t. The truth is men like this are so lost about their role .. have daddy and mommy issues and just hate themselves .. that’s all it is.

She def did miss and ignore many red flags before getting with him though .. and got married and pregnant very quickly

This is why I’m so glad I found Shera and Mina’s content. They’re like the mothers we needed and never had to teach us how to avoid these huge messes.

If a man is ever even bitching about providing or throwing anything in your face he does for you and is super hell bent on you working if you want to … just save your time and run …

Wow watching this and it’s crazy how similar her ex husband is to an ex of mine in the moooovement. Trad men who want trad wife aesthetic but without responsibilities and just a slave and threaten abandonment at any minor inconvienance lol so trad. So glad I’m not in an even worse position and I never had kids with that man. I hope Lauren heals. Say what you want about her but her documentary farmlands about South Africa I feel contributed a lot and brought A lot of people to our side.

I’d say her mindset when you watch this fully is very balanced and mature. She doesn’t fully condemn trad wife life at all. She just says we have to live in reality and be careful esp with the nice aesthetic you see on the internet. People want to keep up appearances to avoid shame and esp even more if their income is dependent on it online. You don’t know what’s going on behind closed doors. Miss sally looking all happy baking her sourdough bread could have an STD from her cheating husband who’s verbally emotionally and sometimes even physically abusive.

Obviously no relationship is perfect and you work through hard times which is what she did and what I tried to do but you get the other abusers like both her and I did who threaten abandonment at every second for nothing. Tip to women no man who loves you would ever just do that.

Her point is to be careful love yourself first … def go after a more trad. Marriage if you want just be careful and don’t rush into it because internet losers who half the time aren’t even married or staying in horrible relationships are pressuring you to.

She even says multiple times here it doesn’t make the nuclear traditional family model itself bad it’s just life and people esp today who are fucked up are more complex than that. Just be careful and never lose yourself.

Lmfao omg