How to attain Marital Bliss.

Part 1: Advice for Wives

1⃣ Respect

True Beauty

Sheikh Abu 'Amr ḥafidhahullāh said:

A woman should be content with what Allah, the Almighty, has apportioned to her.

A woman may not possess natural beauty, but her piety enhances her beauty, and this is true beauty - as Allah says:
﴿یَـٰبَنِیۤ ءَادَمَ قَدۡ أَنزَلۡنَا عَلَیۡكُمۡ لِبَاسࣰا یُوَ ٰ⁠رِی سَوۡءَ ٰ⁠ تِكُمۡ وَرِیشࣰاۖ وَلِبَاسُ ٱلتَّقۡوَىٰ ذَ ٰ⁠لِكَ خَیۡرࣱ﴾
"O children of Adam, We have bestowed upon you clothing to conceal your private parts and as adornment. But the clothing of righteousness - that is best." [Surah Al-Aʿrāf: 26]

Her piety, devotion to Allah, worship, obedience, and adherence to Allah's laws are what bestow true beauty upon her. This is the true beauty in both men and women!

Furthermore, if a woman is married and assists her husband in obeying Allah and treats him well, this will make him love, honor, and cherish her.

Indeed, a naturally beautiful woman who is not pious may be despised by her husband
﴿وَلَأَمَةࣱ مُّؤۡمِنَةٌ خَیۡرࣱ مِّن مُّشۡرِكَةࣲ وَلَوۡ أَعۡجَبَتۡكُمۡ﴾
"A believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist, even though she may look pleasant to you." [Surah Al-Baqarah: 221]

Reality shows that a righteous woman who fulfills her duties is granted goodness by Allah, whereas a woman who lacks righteousness might attract foolish and corrupt individuals, and such a woman may be misled by Shaytan, leading to further evil, as evil begets only more evil.

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? When going through hardships and a tough time remember the story of Hajar عليه السلام, wife of prophet Ibrahim عليه السلام abul ambiya "The Father of Prophets".  Her husband was a prophet and she gave birth to a prophet Ismael عليه السلام.

? Her struggle, her taqwa requires constant and sincere reflection!

✨ Lesson one from the story of Hajar عليه السلام is TAQWA.

? Imagine standing all alone in a desert with a new born baby in your arms and you have ran out of food and water, all you see is sand as far as your eyes can see.

Visualize that and imagine how scared would you be.
YOU WILL FEEL HOPELESS, WORRIED AND ANXIOUS.
That is how our mother Hajar felt….

? Although, regardless of who left her there and why, Hajar عليه السلام knew that Rizq is from Allah, and that Allah would never forsake or abandon her.

? That's the message I take from it. That as an amatullah I know for a fact that Allah will never forsake or abandon me as long as I take action and put my trust in Him.

The character of Hajar عليه السلام is what we should aspire to. Her sense of faith and reliance on Allah and her perseverance in what seemed an utterly hopeless situation is the lesson.

She raised her son Ismael عليه السلام, alone in the desert, without any family around and in such a way that Ismael was still obedient to the very father who left him in the desert.

❓Did she or Ismael throw a fit when Ibrahim عليه السلام showed up years later and said Allah wants me to slaughter you son?
No‼️

? Hajar عليه السلام trusted that Allah would provide, and she sought out that provision.

? Today as a result of that call to Allah, billions of Muslims from around the world and across generations…commemorate her sunnah of running from safa’a to marwah while performing Umrah and Allah gave this Ummah the well of Zam-Zam because of her tawakkul and taqwa in Allah❣️

✨ These two blessings showcase how immense her tawakkul and yaqeen in her Rabb was. Her tawakkul in Allah was so strong that Ibn Abbas  رضي الله عنه comments on the blessing of zamzam and says "??? ????? ?????? ????? ?? ?????’???'? ??????! ??? ??? ???? ??? ?????? ????? ?????? ????? ???? ???? ? ?????? ??????? ?? ??? ??????? ?? ??? ?????."

✦ ???????? is the reason we have Zamzam.
✦ ???????? is the reason the dates fell from the tree to feed Maryam عليه السلام during her labour pains, because a pregnant woman in pain cannot shake a tree.
✦ ???????? is the reason striking the staff split the sea for Musa عليه السلام.

? Let's remember she is our mother. Her example is the best example to emulate. Her trials elevated her. During her lowest points she had the highest level of eeman and faith.

? When things get tough, we need to stop whining. Instead focus on duas, ask Allah that he gives you tawfeeq, sabr and tawakkul that is unmatched and doesn't waver.

? The second lesson is about being okay with not witnessing your true legacy in this temporary lifetime. So, what do I mean by that? When we talk about legacy, did Hajar  عليه السلام witness her entire legacy in her lifetime?
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? Hajar عليه السلام had zero idea that billions of Muslims across generations would commemorate her sunnah while performing umrah.

Similarly, don’t worry if your legacy is not visible in a few years or even in your lifetime. If you are sincere and you do good deeds for the sake of Allah alone, Allah will bless you with a good legacy and inshaAllah the fruition, result and reward will be visible be on the day of judgement.

Some legacies are visible in our lifetime and some will inshaAllah be visible on the day of judgment.

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Just focus on the sincerity of your intentions and perform many good deeds.

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