اللَّهُمَّ إنِّي أسْألُكَ عِيشَةً نَقِيَّةً، ومِيتَةً سَوِيَّةً، ومَرَدّاً غَيْرَ مَخْزٍ ولا فاضِحٍ.

O Allāh, I ask You for a pure life, a peaceful death, and a return (to You) that is neither disgraceful nor shameful

فَيحدث من ذَلِك لِعِبَادِهِ الْخَوْف والخشية والانابة والاقلاع عَن مَعَاصيه والتضرعاليه والندم كَمَا قَالَ بعض السّلف وَقد زلزلت الارض ان ربكُم يستعتبكم وَقَالَ عمر بن الْخطاب وَقد زلزلت الْمَدِينَة فخطبهم ووعظهم وَقَالَ لَئِن عَادَتْ لَا اساكنكم فِيهَا

Allāh sometimes gives the earth permission to breathe, which is when major earthquakes happen; this makes people feel scared, so they repent, give up sins, pray to Allah and feel regret [for their sins]. When there had been an earthquake, some of the Salaf said: “Your Lord is warning you.” When Madīnah was struck by an earthquake, ʿUmar b. al-Khaṭṭāb (may Allah be pleased with you) addressed the people and said: “If there is another earthquake, I will not stay here with you.”

ابن القيم، مفتاح دار السعادة ومنشور ولاية العلم والإرادة ١/٢٢١

ليس اليتيم من مات والده ... إن اليتيم يتيم العلم والأدب

The orphan is not the one whose father has passed away…the true orphan is the one deprived of knowledge and manners.

My virtuous sister, no matter how much your marriage may be delayed:
- Never fall prey to the offers of marriage from online platforms.
- Do not humiliate yourself or compromise your principles and religion.
- Avoid joking about being single all the time, as it diminishes your value. Remember, you are a woman, not a man—modesty is your adornment.
- Refrain from befriending certain people out of a desire for them to marry you off to their brother or their husband’s friends, seeking their approval.
- Never share your pictures or discuss your personal details with unknown sister to help find a spouse. Be cautious of blindly trusting the unknown.
- Avoid posting dreamy messages about the ideal husband or openly expressing your desire for marriage in public.
- Do not talk to anyone about how many times you have been rejected.

Your provision is with Allāh, not with creation.

Remember, the way people perceive you is determined by your actions and words, whether you are single or married.

And know that the righteous spouse will come to you at the time Allāh has decreed for you.

📍منقول…

Many students of knowledge have good hold of Sunnah,
فكثير من طلبة العلم يعتني بالسنة

its explanations commentaries of aḥādīth,
وشروحها

the narrators,
ورجالها،

and give sciences of ḥadīth their full attention.
ومصطلحاتها اعتناءًا كاملاً،

But when you ask them about verses of Book of Allāh, you will find them ignorant.
لكن لو سألته عن آية من كتاب الله لرأيته جاهلاً بها،

And this is a major mistake.
وهذا غلط كبير،

ابن عثيمين رحمه الله، مجموع فتاوى ورسائل ٢٦/٦٧

At-Tabarani recorded that Shutayr bin Shakal said, "I heard Ibn Mas`ud say,

`The greatest ʾĀyah in the Book of Allah is:

اللَّهُ لَا إِلَـهَ إِلاَّ هُوَ الْحَىُّ الْقَيُّومُ

Allāh! None has the right to be worshipped but He, the Ever Living, the One Who sustains and protects all that exists, (2:255)

The most comprehensive ʾĀyah in the Qur'an concerning good and evil is:

إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَأْمُرُ بِالْعَدْلِ وَالاْحْسَانِ

Verily, Allāh enjoins justice and Al-Ihsan, (16:90)

The ʾĀyah in the Qur'an which brings the most relief is in Surah Az-Zumar:

قُلْ يَا عِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا عَلَى أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ

Say:"O My servants who have transgressed against themselves! Despair not of the mercy of Allāh."

And the clearest ʾĀyah in the Qur'an about reliance on Allāh is:

وَمَن يَتَّقِ اللَّهَ يَجْعَل لَّهُ مَخْرَجاًوَيَرْزُقْهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا يَحْتَسِبُ

And whosoever has Taqwa of Allāh, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty). And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. (65:2-3)

Masruq said to him; `You have spoken the truth."'

(Tafsīr Ibn Kathīr, Under Tafsīr of Suarh Az-Zumar, ʾĀyah 53)

قال الإمام ابن القيِّم رحمه الله
Imam Ibn al-Qayyim, may Allah have mercy on him, said:

‏حُبّ العِلْم، وطلبه أصل كُلّ طاعة
Love of knowledge and seeking it is the foundation of every act of obedience.

‏وحُبّ الدُّنْيا والمال، وطلبه أصل كُلّ سيِّئة
And love of the world and wealth, and seeking it, is the foundation of every sin.

‏مفتاح دار السعادة (٤١٩/١)