Your network is your net worth."

~ Porter Gale

Why

Why do people like only happy emotions?
Why do people don't like to face their other emotions?
Why is the word Anger in the religion book and labeled as Bad which is called "Maya"?
Why is there a condition of love in all religious books?
Why do we have to earn love from each other?
Why do children have to earn love from parents by obeying?
Why do parents use the power of controlling in a bad way?
Why do adults tell a lie so much?
Why do they create emotions and blame someone else instead of taking responsibility for their own created emotions?
Why do people hate someone else clothes?
Why do females disempower other females?
Why do males disempower other males?
Why do people hate each other so much?
When did the hate start?
Why do we love to judge other people is it Fun?
Why do people make fun of each other and not care for anyone's feelings?
Why do they say it's funny but when it happens to them they don't laugh at all?
Why asking questions make you upset?

#Questioning _Everything.

How Acting like a little girl/boy affect the men/Women in your life

💥Men/Women won't Respect you.
💥Men/Women will resent you.

The Solution: How to stop acting like a little girl/boy around Men/Women

1. Make a list: "The ways I play little girl/boy around Men/Women" This might be embarrassing, even humiliating to do, but believe me, it will help cure you of #6_Mistakes. The next time you catch yourself talking baby voice, whatever your habits are, you'll become disgusted with yourself and stop.

2. When you find yourself crying/whining, ask yourself: "Is there something I'm angry about?" You can choose to communicate your real feelings like an adult, rather than hiding them beneath whining/tears. Of course, this doesn't mean you shouldn't let yourself cry, or that you are always mad when you weep.

3. The next time you feel helpless or confused, ask yourself: "If I weren't confused, I might feel ..." This is a terrific exercise for clearing out confusion. Before you collapse into confusion and expect some man/woman to rescue you, see if you can get clear on your own. Some of your little girl/boy habits are probably very old, and giving them up won't be easy. But it will feel wonderful to be loved and appreciated for the woman/man in you.

Breaking old habits with a goal in mind and determination is easy. In the next few days and weeks, you'll catch yourself doing many things you just read about. When that happens, Be empowered. Remember: the first step in changing yourself is to become aware of things you're doing that hurt you. So memorize these six mistakes, do all the exercises, share this information with your friends, and get the support you need to become the powerful, loving woman/man you know you want to be.

#6_Mistakes

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?. ? ?? ? ????????? ???? ???? ???? ??????? ????????? ??? ??????????? - The powerful consciousness that I am special and unique in this world, with my own special qualities and attainments, immensely uplifts our feelings and the way we look at ourselves. It is only when we experience deep positivity about who we are and how important we are, that we stop comparing with others and feeling jealous of them.

?. ?? ??? ??? ????? ?? ???'? ???? ??? ?? ??? ?? ?????? ?? ????? - Sometimes the other person's attainments like the way they look, their personality, wealth, fame or relationships attract us and we tend to feel inferior and jealous. At such times, always feel that God loves each one of us equally for who we are and neither is the other person higher than us and nor are we lower than them.

?. ?? ??? ?? ? ???? ???? ????????? ??? ??? ???? ?????? ???? - Feelings of excessive competition often give rise to jealousy and you want to overtake the other person in everything they are good in. This makes you tired and depleted of spiritual treasures like peace, love, joy and power. But a spiritual principle states that it’s good to compete against ourselves and make ourselves more and more better with each day instead of focusing on what is good in the other person, which makes us jealous.

?. ??’? ????????? ?? ????? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???? ???????? ?? ??? ????? - Feelings of jealousy arise in our minds when we try and go very fast in our lives chasing our biggest dreams, even at the cost of our health and relationships. Life feels beautiful when we do not let our dreams dominate our lives and influence us negatively. The more detached we are from our dreams, the lesser is our jealousy of others and lighter is our journey of life.

?. ??? ???? ??? ?????????? ??? ?????? ??? ???????? - It is often seen that people who are more simple in thinking and living never experience feelings of jealousy. Simplicity means to think less and be content with what you have instead of always desiring more. Such people are always happy and are always looking inside themselves and not looking for something or the other outside themselves in other people or the world.

#Jealousy

Exclusive vs Inclusive

Relationships and love are something many struggle with and constantly face conflict. How our trust is broken with our partner is based on how exclusive we are or how inclusive we are towards building a relationship.

Those who choose to be Inclusive meaning their body is open to everyone, not valuing themselves and spreading distrust in each individual person they meet. Slowly they are moving towards low self-esteem, lack of confidence, and not being valuable, cause of their own choice of being too inclusive to everyone no matter how honest they are to themselves and to the other person even if it's mutual. Inclusive are not into making a commitment only time past, want to enjoy the freedom of being irresponsible, not yet ready to grow up to be mature. Yet their own habits cause them to go into stress, unhappiness, addiction to smoking, addiction to drinking, and addiction to drugs because all those inclusive habits lead them towards being addicted to temporary joy which doesn't last long.

On the other hand, those who choose to be Exclusive meaning want to make a commitment and invest their time in just one person and their bodies are only open to the person they are really interested in. When your heart is committed to just one person and willing to be open and vulnerable with feeling safe and there is no fear of being caught or fear of cheating or fear of deceiving or fear of being used etc. When there is no fear and only Love is present then this union of a love relationship with honesty allows both to be elevated to a higher level of consciousness. Awaken the hormones of pure love, bliss, peace, compassion, kindness, unlimited joy, long-lasting contentment, and many more. Being Exclusive takes time, knowing the person, relying on the person during hard times, both committed to making investments of their time to be together no matter what obstacles come their way, and Respecting each other body by waiting when both are ready for the touch and being vulnerable in each other company, Both can trust each other with no doubt visiting in the minds. Such a union will always elevate each other and the people who are around them. They are free from drugs, free from addictions, free from attachment, free from controlling, free from depression, free from anxiety, free from wanting more, free from fear as they both will empower each other to face their fear with mindfulness.

What kind of Relationship do you want Exclusive or Inclusive?

Who is your Friend ?

We all learn to make friends in school and when we find our match then we choose these friends to be lifelong friends, along the way some friends move away, change schools, or quit school. Whatever the reason if the enjoyment with this friend is really good, no matter the distance we will make an effort to keep them in our life.

By the time we go to college, our childhood friend doesn't move with us to the same college we have to make an effort to connect with new friends again to build a bond so strong that we enjoy college life. During Lunch time we can observe and spot a group of friends hanging out based on popularity, nerds, sporty, fashion, introvert, extrovert, etc. There are verities of friends that we can pick who we want to hang out with and we have to copy them to fit in to feel belong, sometime these groups of friends will pick you to be part of the gang.

Let's think outside the box now with this same concept of friendship with our Habits and traits.

Popular Group of Friends:
Negative
Angry
Lust
Greed
Attachment
Desire
Gossip
Competition
Pride
Ego
Revenge
Hate
Destroy
Killing
Robbery
Dishonest
Disrespect
Irresponsible
Jealousy
Fearful
Impatient
Intolerant
Self-serving

Unpopular Group of Friends:
Positive
Light
Love
Kind
Compassion
Humility
Forgiving
Calm
Patient
Peaceful
Sweet
Determine
Humble
Generous
Brave
Courageous
Independent
Flexible
Faith
Caring
Listening
Understanding
Honesty
Respect
Responsible
Simple
Rational
Stable
Pure
Wise
Tolerant
Fearless
Cheerfulness
Contentment
Maturity
Improve
Changing
Detachment

Which group of Friends would you want to hang out with and which group of friends you are willing to let go of. Some friend that comes towards you do they bring something that will benefit your life or do they bring some habits that cause you to get the flu (influence) Have you ever spread your influence onto others or did you allow their influence to change you to feel belong. Did you like yourself after you chose to continue hanging out with those groups of friends who influence your daily life?

Banned

Have you ever been Banned I have many times and this time the Banned is one full month. Turn out Telegram will take report of any individual seriously and will make sure the person will have no permission to text in any group. This is putting power in public hands if anyone dislikes you they can just report you and ban you from participating in groups.

It's like pushing the person into isolation just cause you have hurt my emotions and I shall report you so you can't share your post or ideas or lesson you learn with anyone anymore. I will not give you a chance to make some changes in other people's lives or influence others with your truthfulness.

I have a choice to get upset or see the bright side.
I tell myself I am getting vacation for one month while I have one month of vacation not allowed to share with anyone what I learned I can still share in the channel that I owned and groups I created. Sometimes negative thoughts do come saying what if the owner of the telegram banned you from the telegram itself then all that you share in the group and in the channel will be gone for good or will be deserted and all that I have shared will be gone like as if I didn't exist at all. This does make me feel a bit sad and wants to cry and yet I tell myself what if I am dead everything I share will also disappear as well so why cry or feel sad. Telegram owners will have the power of the channel and can keep it active or deactivate that is again their choice as well. However, I trust in the Divine in everyone so the Divine in them will 100 keep the channel active so others can still benefit from it.

One heart still says to always have backup plans just in case want to pass on the lesson to the next generation in Books.

Plus Point:
Can still share in the group that I am Admin. Am grateful that I am allowed to express and share my lesson freely in all those groups that have promoted me to be Admin, without you all I would feel and think "Am I useless" "Am I not needed anymore"

Negative thoughts like to visit when it knows that what the owner love is gone it will come to visit me to cause me pain with lots of whisper saying lots of things. It's like uninvited friend come to stay and doesn't want to leave. It just left cause it doesn't like to be expose.

How will you handle the situation when you are banned ?