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Forgiveness is a nuanced decision that can be guided by the following principles:

1. Acknowledge Kindness: If someone has been kind to you in the past, it is important to forgive them even if they err, as a response to their previous goodness.

2. Recognize Innocence: When someone makes an unintentional mistake, extend forgiveness, understanding that everyone is fallible and can err. However, ensure that you thoroughly investigate the situation to confirm it was indeed a genuine mistake.

3. Address Deception: Be firm in punishing those who commit wrongdoing and then feign ignorance. Even minor acts of such deception should be met with strict consequences.

4. Limit Forgiveness for Repeated Offenses: It is wise to forgive a first mistake, but if the same behavior is repeated, it is essential to withhold forgiveness.

5. Embrace Softness: Often, a gentle approach can win over even adversaries, so strive to practice kindness and softness whenever possible.

6. Consider Context: Take into account the context, including the place, time, and relative strength of those involved. Sometimes, forgiving may be necessary to maintain peace among people.

Story by "Paulo Coelho"
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"Shoes"
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"Right after the fall of communism, a Belgian company sent two representatives to look into the feasibility of selling their products in Russia. Two different reports were received.

"Nobody wears Western shoes here," wrote the first representative, "if we install a factory here, we will suffer heavy losses."

"Nobody wears Western shoes here," wrote the second representative, "If we install a factory here, we will start the fashion trend and sell the entire production.""

Attitude matters

SOME PEOPLE ALWAYS LOOK FOR THE NEGATIVE

There was a hunter who bought a bird dog, the only one of its kind in the world. That could walk on water . He couldn't believe his eyes when he saw this miracle. At the same time, he was very pleased that he could show off his new acquisition to hisfriends. He invited a friend to go duck hunting. After some time, they shot a fewducks and the man ordered his dog to run and fetch the birds. All day-long, the dog ran on water and kept fetching the birds. The owner was expecting a comment or acompliment about his amazing dog, but never got one. As they were returning home,he asked his friend if he had noticed anything unusual about his dog. The friendreplied, "Yes, in fact, I did notice something unusual. Your dog can't swim."

A just society is that society in which ascending sense of reverence and descending sense of contempt is dissolved into the creation of a compassionate society

B.R. Ambedkar

During a robbery in Zimbabwe, the bank robber shouted to everyone in the bank: "Don't move. The money belongs to the State. Your life belongs to you."

Everyone in the bank lay down quietly. This is called the
"Mind Changing Concept" Changing the conventional way of thinking.

When a lady lay on the table provocatively, the robber shouted at her: "Please be civilized! This is a robbery and not a rape!"

This is called "Being Professional" Focus only on what you are trained to do!

When the bank robbers returned home, the younger robber (MBA-trained) told the older robber (who has only completed Year 6 in primary school): "Big brother, let's count how much we got."

The older robber rebutted and said: "You are very stupid.
There is so much money it will take us a long time to count.
Tonight, the TV news will tell us how much we robbed from the bank!"

This is called "Experience." Nowadays, experience is more important than paper qualifications!
After the robbers had left, the bank manager told the bank supervisor to call the police quickly. But the supervisor said to him: "Wait! Let us take out $10 million from the bank for ourselves and add it to the $70 million that we have previously embezzled from the bank".

This is called "Swim with the tide." Converting an unfavourable situation to your advantage!

The supervisor says: "It will be good if there is a robbery every month."
This is called "Killing Boredom."

Personal Happiness is more important than your job.

The next day, the TV news reported that $100 million was taken from the bank. The robbers counted and counted and counted, but they could only count $20 million. The robbers were very angry and complained: "We risked our lives and only took $20 million. The bank manager took $80 million with a snap of his fingers. It looks like it is better to be educated than to be a thief!"

This is called "Knowledge is worth as much as gold!"

The bank manager was smiling and happy because his losses in the share market are now covered by this robbery.

This is called "Seizing the opportunity." Daring to take risks!

So who are the real robbers here?

_The Story of Vibhishana_

Vibhishana, Ravana's brother, opposed Ravana's evil ways and advised him to return Sita to Rama. When Ravana refused, Vibhishana bravely defected to Rama's side, despite knowing it meant fighting against his own family.

Vibhishana's courage and conviction in standing up against his own brother and joining the side of righteousness ultimately contributed to Ravana's downfall and Rama's victory.

Vibhishana's story showcases the courage to take a stand against evil, even when it means going against one's own kin.

“The ability to influence people without irritating them is the most profitable skill you can learn.”

– Napoleon Hill