“toxic people? huh boring.”
“nape?”
“sbb dorang akan cari jalan utk jatuhkan kau dgn pelbagai taktik kotor sehingga sanggup rosakkan hubungan kau dgn org sekitar.”
“mcm mana kau tahu?”
“sbb aku penah kena.”
“dan benda tu kenangan yg paling sakit, perit, pedih dan aku dh tak boleh percaya sapa ii dh, sbb kawan aku sendiri buat mcm tu”

reminder: never believe anyone cause sometimes yourself can betray you?

Sebab takut malu kan? (Haha this is a critic to myself also)

Anyways, sihat selalu gen z (especially yg sandwich generation tu) ♥️

Random rant.

I think most ppl terlepas pandang yg cara generasi baru berfikir tak sama dgn generasi lama sebab cara didikan kita tak sama. Disebabkan kita dibesarkan dalam timeline yg berbeza, so our education system punya objective pun tak sama. Kalau dulu, boomers & millinials diajar untuk menghafal. Sebab matlamat org dulu adalah untuk survive. So education system mereka mengajar mereka utk survive. Cara paling mudah? “Ha nah ko ambik buku teks tebal kamus ni, hafal. Pastu time exam ko muntahkan aje.”

Sekarang? Totally different. Kita punya buku teks hanya one of sources, bukan sumber mutlak. Pembelajaran dah tak berlandaskan peperiksaan & buku teks. Objektif sistem pendidikan skrg adalah utk bina modal insan yg ada input sendiri- yg boleh bagi pendapat, boleh menaakul, boleh berhujah, bukan sekadar menghafal. Sebab zaman skrg dh ramai yg educated. Dh ramai yg masuk universiti. So apa matlamat baru kita? Utk bina insan berkualiti. Yg bukan je pandai masa exam, tapi jugak boleh bagi idea baru, boleh memimpin & boleh menyumbang pada masyarakat. That's why most of us (gen z) suka pembaharuan. Bukan bermakna kita menafikan pengalaman yg lama, cuma that's just how we bring out the potential in ours. Most boomers & millinials that I know akan selalu ckp benda sama “Ala adat la tu, kita kena profesional, takpe ikut aje, kita buat je kerja kita, at least diorg bayar gaji kita,” Which I think ada pros & cons dia. Idk about the others but gen z yg ada quality & potential biasanya tak suka sekadar jadi ‘pak turut'. We work to build our skills, to bring new innovations & to bring out our potentials. Kalau setakat ikut macam lembu kena cucuk hidung je, apa guna ubah sistem pendidikan?

I honestly feel it's unfair to call gen z as degil, rebellious, takboleh dgr cakap & memilih kerja sebab I think that is all just a result of not knowing how to handle gen z well. Bcs well, as much as I can see, there is so much potential in gen z yg boleh benefits our industry sebenarnya. Org pandai perah ke tidak je. Bila org tak pandai perah, tu yg jadi mcm sekarang. Katanya gen z kuat melawan, lembik, sikit" nk berenti. One thing about gen z yg org selalu salah faham adalah, we leave because we are weak. Wrong. We leave bcs we feel our efforts & potentials are not worth it to be wasted at your undeveloped & incompetent company. Sayang sangat, potensi ada tapi tak digunakan apatah lagi dikembangkan. Just imagine how much our industry can benefits from maximizing gen z potential to the fullest extent possible.

Wait, so how is the right way to handle gen z? Instead of telling us WHAT to do, tell us HOW to do this & that. Tell us WHY this is wrong & this is right. Tell us WHAT IS THE IMPACT if I do this instead of that. Tell us things to make us UNDERSTAND, not just to give instructions. Give us SPACE & TIME to EXPERIMENT with our method instead of your old ways. It might work just as good or even better than previous ways. Kalau tak kena? Ubah balik. RnD. Improve. That's it.

Anyways, I know by saying this I can't change anything lol. This is just some random thoughts I had in my mind. Either way, life is still life. Not everything gonna be like we want. Not everyone will going to understand our situation.

However, I couldn't say that millennials & boomers are really useless bcs hey, we are here bcs of them. And as I said before, there are pros & cons to be someone yg “penurut” ni. I think gen z, millennials & also boomers ada weakness & strength masing". This earth would be a better place for everyone kalau every gen tu try to understand each other.

But well, ni kan hidup. We can't change how other ppl think kan? We will never, ever could change our society sebenarnya. Tapi, org selalu lupa yg a society always starts from an individual. And we are always included as the individual. Nk start something good, why not start from diri sendiri? Haha sebaik-baik dakwah adalah contoh tauladan kan? Any changes are not impossible to make, cuma lumrah manusia, kita lebih suka mengikut dari memulakan.

Curang itu pilihan, semuanya terletak kat atas diri masing ii, if you feel enough with your partner kau tak perlu curang. Ye mmg kadang ii dia buat mcm tak layan kau, sbb apa dia buat mcm tu sbb nak tgk sejauh mana kau tahan dgn perangai dia. Kau jgn terus serkap jarang yg dia dh tak tahan dgn kau. Lepastu gi try perempuan lain, mmg kaulah terpaling teksakiti...huh. dh curang lepastu tak mengaku. What the fish?! Manipulate cite sana sini. Last ii kau yg kena balik. You deserve it cheater.

Korang tau tak perasan dimana kita minta utk cuma dicintai sbb kita tak penah rasa kasih sayang yg ade someone yg faham perasan kita. Just faham bila kita nak sorang ii, bila kita nak ada teman, borak ii and tak perlu call pun cukup kita wassap je. I need a man like this. Just feel enough dgn chat dia. We don't need his time, we just want to feel like someone that always with us even his far enough from but that his existence make we feel like he is close with us. Even kau chat good morning pun make my day. Just jgn cheat and tipu je. Kita just tak berapa suka dgn lelaki yg clingy yg 24 jam nak call sbb kita masing ii ada kerja nak kena buat masing ii busy urus daily life, but sometimes dia buat manja ii skit pun dh comel. Even small things yg kau buat mcm bg sticker bodoh ii pun buat hari aku bahagia, kita tak pandang fizikal sngt kita just nak yg pandai buat lawak.

Menjadi rumah untuk seseorang itu membuat kita rasa istimewa, hanya untuk sementara. Selebihnya? Melelahkan. Mereka datang cuma jika mereka perlu sesuatu. Kemudian, mereka pergi lagi sesuka hati. Mereka tahu, kita akan selalu ada di tempat yg sama. Menunggu…

Sudah melepaskan, tapi masih dendam.

? :: @diaryhealing

dia yang curang , tapi kenapa dia yang lebih bahagia ?