?️? It All Depends on How You Say It ??️

Once, an Eastern ruler had a terrible dream in which all his teeth fell out, one by one. Deeply disturbed, he summoned a dream interpreter to his presence. The interpreter listened attentively and solemnly declared:

"Oh, ruler, I must deliver sad news to you. You will lose each and every one of your loved ones, one after another."

These words angered the ruler greatly. He ordered the unfortunate interpreter to be thrown into prison and called for another interpreter. This time, upon hearing the dream, the interpreter said:

"I am delighted to share with you joyful news—you will outlive all your relatives."

The ruler was overjoyed and generously rewarded the interpreter for this prediction. The courtiers were quite puzzled.

"But you told him the same thing as your poor predecessor! Why was he punished while you were rewarded?" they asked.

To which came the reply:

"We both interpreted the dream in the same way. However, it all depends not on what you say, but how you say it."

?? This tale teaches us the importance of communication and the impact of our words. The same message can be delivered in different ways, and the manner of delivery can greatly influence its reception. Let's remember that the tone, empathy, and sensitivity with which we communicate can make a world of difference in how our messages are understood and received. Choose your words wisely and speak with kindness! ??

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? Cristiano Ronaldo enters the Guinness World Records! ?

The forward for Al-Nasr and the Portuguese national team, Cristiano Ronaldo, has become the highest-earning athlete in 2023.

According to Forbes estimates for the year leading up to May 1, 2023 (covering most sports seasons), the legendary Portuguese star earned a staggering $136 million.

In doing so, Cristiano has surpassed Lionel Messi's annual earnings (the Argentine earned $130 million), taking the top spot in the rankings.

Furthermore, Cristiano Ronaldo has made it into the Guinness World Records for the highest annual earnings in the history of sports.

The 38-year-old Portuguese superstar earned $46 million directly from his performances on the football field (salary from Manchester United and Al-Nasr). Additionally, he received another $90 million from lucrative endorsement deals.

? Cristiano Ronaldo continues to break records both on and off the pitch, showcasing his remarkable talent and unmatched marketability. Congratulations, Cristiano! ?⚽?

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?? The Cricket and the Native American ??

One day, an American man was walking along a bustling street in New York City with his Native American friend. Suddenly, the Native American exclaimed:

"I hear a cricket!"

"You must be crazy," replied the American, scanning the crowded central street during rush hour. Cars were swarming, construction workers were busy, and airplanes flew overhead.

"But I truly hear it," insisted the Native American, moving towards a flower bed in front of a building. He bent down, parted the leaves of a plant, and showed me a cricket happily chirping and enjoying life.

"That's incredible," remarked the American. "You must have an amazing hearing!"

"No, it all depends on what you're tuned into," replied the Native American. With those words, he scattered a handful of coins on the sidewalk. Immediately, passersby turned their heads and reached into their pockets to check if they had dropped money.

"You see," he smiled, "it all depends on what you're tuned into."

?? This story reminds us of the power of perception and focus. Our experiences and observations are shaped by what we pay attention to. By directing our attention to the things that truly matter, we can uncover hidden wonders in the midst of the bustling world around us. Let's stay tuned to the beauty and magic that surrounds us every day! ??

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How to obtain personal information? ?

The first step is up to you to gain the person's trust. Therefore, share a fact about yourself (just make sure it can't be used against you as a weapon). ?

After that, you can carefully ask the person about something directly or indirectly related to the current topic. ?

Subconsciously, a trigger will activate, and the person will start telling you everything in response. And if you also engage in empathetic listening, reflect the person's emotions during their story, and listen attentively, you can learn even more than you initially expected. ?

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What to see on the weekend? ?

"Life is Beautiful" (La vita è bella) 1997

"Life is Beautiful" (La vita è bella) is a 1997 Italian film directed by Roberto Benigni, who also co-wrote and starred in the film. It is a tragicomic story set during the Holocaust and follows the journey of Guido Orefice, a Jewish Italian man, and his young son Giosué.

The film is divided into two distinct parts. The first part depicts Guido's courtship and eventual marriage to Dora, played by Nicoletta Braschi, and their lives leading up to the outbreak of World War II. The second part takes place in a concentration camp, where Guido and his son are sent. Despite the grim setting, Guido uses his wit, humor, and imagination to shield his son from the horrors of the camp, pretending that their situation is part of an elaborate game and that they are competing to win.

"Life is Beautiful" received widespread acclaim upon its release and went on to win numerous awards, including three Academy Awards: Best Foreign Language Film, Best Original Score, and Best Actor for Roberto Benigni. The film is celebrated for its unique blend of comedy and tragedy, effectively capturing the power of love, hope, and the resilience of the human spirit even in the darkest of times.

"Life is Beautiful" is a masterful exploration of the human capacity for joy, humor, and love in the face of unimaginable suffering. It skillfully juxtaposes the horrors of the Holocaust with the indomitable spirit of the characters, ultimately delivering a powerful and uplifting message about the triumph of the human spirit.

Overall, "Life is Beautiful" is a poignant, emotional, and thought-provoking film that portrays the power of love, imagination, and the strength of the human spirit in the most challenging of circumstances. It remains a touching and enduring cinematic experience that continues to resonate with audiences worldwide.

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5 types of personal boundaries that will improve your mental health ?

You will be manipulated, taken advantage of, and controlled if you don't establish boundaries. When you want to live your own life, it's important to be able to say "No." Here's a small collection of boundary types that you need to learn to set for yourself.

▪️Emotional boundaries. If you're tired, don't want to fulfill someone's request, engage in conversation, listen to someone, or give advice, you have the right to say no, and that refusal won't spoil anything. When someone gets offended by such boundaries, they are manipulating you through guilt, nothing more. ?

▪️Personal boundaries. Don't allow anyone to criticize your interests, goals, or dreams without reason. Especially if you aspire to succeed in the field you dream of. Jokes should also be appropriate. Don't tolerate humor that undermines your self-worth. Moreover, don't tolerate insults. ??‍♀️

▪️Financial boundaries. You don't have to share your financial success with those who haven't achieved the same. "You have more, so you should pay" is also a form of manipulation. Likewise, you don't have to justify to everyone how much you've earned, spent, or what you're saving for. And most importantly, ignore judgments about your desire for financial well-being. ??‍♂️

▪️Professional boundaries. Let's say you're good at designing websites, and an old acquaintance asks for your help in creating an online store. Besides the past connection, there's nothing else tying you to them, but you feel uncomfortable charging them. That's unacceptable. You have the right to earn money from what you do well. ??

▪️Time boundaries. When you spend a lot of time on something, you should receive compensation in return, whether it's money, experiences, or knowledge. If there's none of that, then it means the time has been wasted. The only exceptions may be difficulties faced by your closest loved ones. ⌛️?

By applying these boundaries, you will become more mentally resilient and emotionally stable. It's important to understand that these boundaries are applicable not only to strangers but also to spouses, parents, and close friends who often overstep their limits. ??

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