“Sekalipun kau tidak disukai, kau hanya tidak disukai manusia, lantas kenapa kau menderita?

Sekalipun engkau dicintai, kau hanya dicintai manusia, lantas kenapa kau sangat bangga?”

-Syeikh Said Ramadhan al-Buthi

A Series of Reminders About The Month of Sha'bān - No.5

Whoever Has Fast To Make Up From The Past Ramaḍān Then It Is Necessary For Him To Make It Up In Sha'bān Before The Upcoming Ramaḍān

Shaykh Muḥammad Ṣāliḥ al-'Uthaymīn رحمه الله said: "It is not permissible to postpone making up fast (from the last Ramaḍān) to the point that the second Ramaḍān enters without an excuse. This is because of the statement of 'Aa'ishah رضي الله عنها: "I had to fast to make from Ramaḍān and I was not able to do so except in Sha'bān." [Reported by Bukhārī]

● [مجالس شهر رمضان ص ٥٩]

Doa yang diajarkan Nabi supaya diberikan Akhlaq yang baik :

اللَّهُمَّ اهْدِنِي لِأَحْسَنِ الَأخْلاَقِ لا َ

يَهْدِي لِأَحْسَنِهَا إلَّا أَنْتَ ، وَ اصْرِفْ عَنِّي

سَيِّئَهَا وَ لاَ يَصْرِفُ عَنِّي سَيِّئَهَا إِلَّا أَنْتَ

Ya allah , tunjukilah kpd ku akhlaq yg baik , tidak ada yang dapat menunjukinya kecuali engkau . Dan jauhilah keburukkan akhlak dariku , tidak ada yang menjauhikannya kecuali engkau .

Do not forget that one of the most important things that will help you stay in a constant state of reflection of remembrance (dhikr) is to attend more and more gatherings of the righteous (majlis ‘ilm), and to incline towards them. Conversely, one of the most important things that will take you away from reflection and remembrance is to become immersed in gatherings of amusement and to incline towards heedless people, and to attend gatherings in which precious time is wasted, by delving into that which is of no benefit and the dead flesh of others is bitten into (backbiting [49:12]), as the Qur’an describes in the most reprehensible way and is being warned against.

Alangkah indahnya menjadi wanita tersembunyi~

Jarang terlihat di alam realiti apa lagi alam maya tidak sesekali. Namun alunan selawatya bergema dari jendela rumah menuju ke Raudhah, menyapa mesra, Sang Kekasih Hati.

"Berfalsafah" here basically means coming up with all sorts of excuses to justify a mistake instead of just owning up to it. Instead of saying, “Yeah, I messed up. Sorry," some people will try to sound smart or twist their words to avoid admitting they’re wrong.

Imam al-Shafi’i is pointing out that a wise person knows how to take responsibility and apologise, while a foolish person will waste time making excuses or arguing instead of just fixing the issue.

Rasulullah saw said:

The five daily prayers are like a great river running by your door in which you take a bath five times a day.

- Hadith narrated by Muslim

Hadith dha'if still boleh amal!
وليس كل ضعيف مردود

Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal رحمه الله was asked:

“How do you know the liars?”

He replied: “By their punctuality (i.e. honouring time)”

Adab al-Imlā'a wal Istimlā'a lis-Sam'āni, Page 40