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A mature person does not fall in love, he rises in love. The word 'fall' is not right. Only immature people fall; they stumble and fall down in love. Somehow they were managing and standing. They cannot manage and they cannot stand they find a woman and they are gone, they find a man and they are gone. They were always ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don't have the backbone, the spine; they don't have that integrity to stand alone.

A mature person has the integrity to be alone. And when a mature person gives love, he gives without any strings attached to it: he simply gives. And when a mature person gives love, he feels grateful that you have accepted his love, not vice versa. He does not expect you to be thankful for it no, not at all, he does not even need your thanks. He thanks you for accepting his love. And when two mature persons are in love, one of the greatest paradoxes of life happens, one of the most beautiful phenomena: they are together and yet tremendously alone; they are together so much so that they are almost one. But their oneness does not destroy their individuality, in fact, it enhances it: they become more individual. Two mature persons in love help

each other to become more free. There is no politics involved, no diplomacy, no effort to dominate. How can you dominate the person you love? Just think over it. Domination is a sort of hatred, anger, enmity. How can you think of dominating a person you love? You would love to see the person totally free, independent; you will give him more individuality. That's why I call it the greatest paradox: they are together so much so that they are almost one, but still in that oneness they are individuals. Their individualities are not effaced they have become more enhanced. The other has enriched them as far as their freedom is concerned.

Immature people falling in love destroy each other's freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondages. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness.

If life gives you lemons ?add vodka cheers!?

Explanation : Well there are several such phrases in vogue, for instance: when life give you lemons, order tequila and enjoy OR when life give you lemon add soda and make lemonade.

The phrase means, if you face adversity you turn around the situation completely by diverting the adversity to your advantage without worrying about what hit you.

The basic principle is to never lose your optimism and keep your chin up. I believe, the actual situation which looks to be bad more often than not is not as bad as you anticipate it to be, so if life throws stones at you, you store them to build a wall to protect yourself :)

Love is a rare flowering. It happens only sometimes. Million and millions of people live in the false attitude that they are LOVERS. They believe that they love. but that is their belief only.
Sometimes it happens. It's rare cuz it can happen only when there is no fear. never before. That means Love can happen only to a very deeply spiritual religious person.
Acquaintance is possible for all NOT LOVE.

Dr.A.P.J. Abdul kalam ✨? words ?

Radhekrishna ✨?

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ɪ ᴀᴍ ᴛʜᴇ ᴘᴀꜱᴛ ɪ ᴀᴍ ᴛʜᴇ ꜰᴜᴛᴜʀᴇ ɪ ᴀᴍ ᴛʜᴇ ᴘʀᴇꜱᴇɴᴛ ɪ ᴀᴍ ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴏᴏɴ, ᴛʜᴇ ꜱᴜɴ, ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ꜱᴋʏ ɪ ᴀᴍ ᴅᴇᴀᴛʜ, ᴘɪᴛʏ, ᴀɴᴅ ᴀɴɢᴇʀ ɪ ᴀᴍ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡɪꜱᴇ, ᴀɴᴅ ɪɴɴᴏᴄᴇɴᴛ ɪ ᴀᴍ ꜱʜɪᴠᴀ ?

It **is absolutely futile to seek anything outside. Everything is within you. Know yourself.
Look deeply into why you are constrained today and reflect on it so that you don't live like this in the future. Try to spread love among all souls If you do good to others, then your own self will be with you. Drive away all the hatred and malice inside you with your tenacity and move forward with compassion

Be in joy, be happy :)

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It is not easy to forget the things that you value and when they go away from you, your mind goes crazy..⚡⚡✨?

जिनके मन में श्री राम है,
भाग्य में उसके वैकुण्ठ धाम है,
उनके चरणो में जिसने जीवन वार दिया,
संसार में उसका कल्याण है।
राम नवमी की हार्दिक बधाई।??✨?