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Afsus...

Ateism va Islom o'rtasida bahslar hali beri tugamaydi. Har xil fikrlar, tortishuvlar va janjallar to oxir zamongacha davom etaveradi. Hamma o'z fikri bilan, musulmon Qur'on, ateist esa ilm bilan isbotlashga urinadi.

Mayli, hamma o'zi tanlagan yo'lidan boraversin. Alloh har kimning qanday dardda ekanligini biladi va o'z bandalariga qay yo'ldan yurish tanlovini berib qo'yadi.

Bu kabi bahslar tugamasa ham natija oldindan aniq. Islom g'olib bo'ladi. Musulmonda Ar-Rohmanning haq vadasi bor, ateistda esa hech narsa.

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@omonoffozil

Mana shu postda urg'u berilgan ayol jinsiga mansub inson hech qanday dinga e'tiqod qilmas ekan, ya'ni ateizm ta'limotiga ishonadi. Kecha bir post izohida juda ko'pchilik bilan islomga qarshi fikrlari bilan tortishdi. Har ikkita gapida shayton va do'zah kabi kalimalarni ishlatdi. Qo'shimchasiga bobosi ham, ota-onasi ham ateist ekanligini aytdi.

Qiziqib qoldim va chatgptdan ateizm haqida so'radim. Ateizm "supernatural being"larning hech qaysi biriga ishonmaydi. Bu degani Xudo, farishta, jin va shayton kabi tushunchalar ularning e'tiqodiga ko'ra yot tushunchalar.

Shunda savol tug'ildi: qiz kecha shunchaki rol o'ynab berganmi? Ota-bobosi ateist bo'lgan qiz nahotki shayton yoki do'zahga ishonmaslik kerakligini bilmasa? Shayton unga narsalarning xabarini berishini aytsa? O'zini shaytonning urg'ochisi deb atasa?

Ularning ta'limotiga bu kabi tushunchalar zid edi-ku?

Shayton yoki do'zah faqat din bilan bog'liq va dindorlar ishonadigan tushunchalar. Ateizm esa din emas, u dinsizlik. Ateism bu g'ayrioddiy kuchga ega bo'lganlarni inkor qiladi.

Xulosa: yozishdan oldin ham bir o'ylab olish kerak.

P.s Faqatgina O'zidan ofiyat so'rab qolamiz.

@omonoffozil

Shu comment bugun o'qigan eng ma'noli gapim bo'ldi.

Axloq din tanlamaydi. Axloqsizmi demak uning harakteri bilan dinning yoki dinsizlikning aloqasi yo'q.

Steriotip

E’tibor berganmisiz, farzand tug’ilganida yoki uning tug’ilgan kun tabrigida atrofdagilardan ota-onasining orzusidagi yigit/qiz bo’lsin, baxtli bo’lsin degan tilaklarni eshitamiz.

Shunda savol tug’iladi. Ey to’xta, nega ota-onasining orzusidagi farzand bo’lishi kerak? Farzandning o’z orzusi bo’lmaydimi?

Yoki farzand ota onasining orzulari uchun o’zinikidan kechib yuborishi kerakmi? Farzand ota-ona tanlab bergab yo’ldan yurishga majburmi?

Alohida fikr, qarash, tuyg’u, maqsad va orzu bo’lishini tabiiy qabul qilishni o’rganishimiz kerak. Yangilikka, boshqacha fikrlashga yoki boshqacha tanlovga doimo yo’l qo’yib berilishi kerak.

Bu kabi jamiyatimizda qotib qolgan steriotiplarni yo’q qilishimiz lozim. Aks holda, maqsad va orzularga ega yoshlarni yo’qotishimiz mumkin.

@omonoffozil

One of the precious things that I admire in a relationship with one's family:

- being a friend with your own dad.

@omonoffozil

Baxtli bo'l.

https://youtu.be/BAj4RVKnwik?si=TRZE3Aq5GJxMOzth

“Love that God instilled in my heart” was a line repeated in a song I had to tolerate during a taxi ride.

As a linguistics graduate, I have an issue with the word choice here. "Love" is too grand a term to describe a fleeting emotion outside of marriage, which the singer was glorifying. A more fitting word would be "infatuation" or "attachment"—a feeling that arises from the beautiful facade someone shows you. Nothing beyond that!

With over 10 years of marriage experience, I’ve learned that love, like any valuable asset, takes time to build. The essential components—respect, appreciation, and gratitude—must come from both parties involved. Love endures through through thick and thin, petty arguments, and misunderstandings. Acting responsibly, regardless of the circumstances, is at the core of finding peace and harmony with one another.

So, love at first sight? Impossible... unless you’re talking about the love you feel when you first see your baby.

Now, circling back, if I were to rewrite the song—not that I’m eager to—it would sound more like: “Lust that demons instilled in my heart.” Okay, maybe that's a bit over the top, but you get the idea.

P.S. If you often find yourself overtaken by fleeting crushes, it likely comes down to three reasons: you're either listening to too many lovey-dovey songs, watching too many sappy movies, or spending time with the wrong company—friends whose only concern is the opposite gender.

https://t.me/englishnudge