After the decision to move away you will find that the person you left misses you This is evidence of the sincerity of your feelings and that you loved deeply , but you cannot go back or feel nostalgic Missing is not a sufficient reason for you to come back You need guarantees very much , and the reason that makes you come back is that you find sure guarantees and that all the things that made you leave are gone It will not happen again , and you will not go through the same troubles again at that time , but you may think about coming back But any return based on emotion and longing is heartache and a waste of time .

No matter what you do and no matter how you are , you fear for the feelings of those around you and you want to please all people Likewise everyone will see you as they want to see you The person who loves you will make an excuse for you no matter what you do , and the one who does not love you or does not know you even if you turn will also see you as a monsterرand in the end everyone He interprets your actions according to his personality and experience in life and this is why it is very important that you do what satisfies your conscience and comforts you psychologically even if it is contrary to all people and is not the norm and know that as long as you take God into consideration in your actions and He will certainly stand with you and be fair to you regardless of what happens .

God does not take anything from you unless it will harm you and He does not deprive you of anything unless that thing is a loss for you and not a gain and He tests you so that you realize the value of what you possess and to compensate you later Everything is with God With dates reasons and arrangements many of them all of them happen to your advantage Only “ for your benefit ” do not rush and you will discover later that everything that happens to you is not out of thin air and is not bad luck as you call it but rather an act of generosity from God , who is generous to you The path of patience ends in reparation no matter how long it takes Surrender your affairs to God and trust in Him and your peace of mind will not leave you no matter how difficult life is for you .

When you choose the person who will share the rest of your life with you do not choose a cruel person , no matter how much you love him and are attached to him Always look for the trait of “ tenderness ” The compassionate person who makes life’s difficulties problems and pressures easier for you The person who knows how to comfort and heal and contain and feel you and satisfy you when you fall You find his hand extended to you you don't have the opportunity to look for someone else's hand to support you and rise everything can be made easy and compensated money comes and goes the appearance changes and we grow , and nothing remains but the sincere and yearning heart nothing remains but love containment tenderness mercy kindness and warmth and these are the most important Need in relationships .

I once heard someone say : “ Being cruel to someone you love hurts ” This is not a sentence or just words No this is the biggest truth in the world In reality the cruelty of a loved one hurts breaks and destroys Maybe when it happens from a stranger we are not affected We may feel uncomfortable for a day or two and that's it But cruelty when it comes from someone dear to us He is close to us and his teacher is among us for the rest of our lives and we never forget him because we do not expect what happened and we do not realize that all this is from the people closest and dearest to us .

The heart feels everything that is hidden behind faces in an unnatural way I sometimes told people that there is someone who does not love me , and I had no reason to say that to justify my words other than that I was just a feeling Days passed and you proved to me that my feeling , which had no evidence had become real What do you feel? Always do it from the first time before any event happens 90% of it is the real thing When you feel that someone loves you or does not love you and nothing has happened yet , check them Trust your feelings and know that they will most likely end correctly The heart feels the lying eye and the incomplete look The handshake has flaws and many movements Its owner cannot control it , nor does your mind recognize it but your heart senses it quickly .

What do you mean by asking others about their opinion about the girl you will marry , or the book you will read or the language you intend to study or even the movie or artistic work you intend to watch? Why don’t you understand that people’s experiences are different and their judgments are subject to different factors Why are you afraid of your choices and ignore your will and your experience in life and what will happen if you choose something and then it turns out that your choice is not ideal? Life is experiences and even a failed experience will add great value to you There is no such thing in life as always making the right choices Live life and try to see and experience for yourself You choose who you love what you do what you study what you watch what you read and what you eat The experience itself will entertain you and teach you new things even if there is a failure rate .