Remember this statement whenever ur going through a difficulty, feeling powerless, confused or defeated. Subhaan Allah this powerful statement really does give u ease & strength everytime u recite it with conviction & sincerity.

Teach ur kids this dhikr as well & remind them that that its Allah Subhaana wa ta'aala, the Almighty, who will solve their problem & make things easier for them no matter what the situation is.

Be Just Between Your Sons And Daughters

Anas bin Mālik (radhiyallāhu'anhu) reported: A man was with the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, when his son came. He kissed him and sat him down on his thigh. Then, his daughter came and she sat to his side. The Prophet said, “Why do you not treat them equally?”

Source: Sharḥ Maʻānī al-Āthār 3838

Grade: Hasan (fair) according to Al-Albani

عَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ كَانَ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ رَجُلٌ فَجَاءَ ابْنٌ لَهُ فَقَبَّلَهُ وَأَجْلَسَهُ عَلَى فَخِذِهِ ثُمَّ جَاءَتْ بِنْتٌ لَهُ فَأَجْلَسَهَا إِلَى جَنْبِهِ قَالَ فَهَلا عَدَلْتَ بَيْنَهُمَا

3838 شرح معاني الآثار كتاب الهبة والصدقة باب الرجل ينحل بعض بنيه دون بعض

7/263 المحدث الألباني خلاصة حكم المحدث إسناده حسن في السلسلة الصحيحة
It is recommended to treat children equally in gift-giving and in all kinds of kindness, even kisses, whether they are male or female, so that there will not be anything in the heart of the less-favoured one that will keep him from honouring the parents.” (Sharh As-Sunnah, 8/297)

It was narrated that Ibrahim An-Nakha`i (may Allah have mercy on him) said: “They regarded it as recommended for a man to treat his children equally even with regard to kissing.” (Musannaf Ibn Abu Shaybah, 11/221)

The Companions Acted Upon The Prophetic Guidance
Ibrāhīm an-Nakha'ī (d. 95/96 H) said:

"They (the companions) used to like to treat their children equally even in respect to the kiss."

Do Not Hate The Daughters.

قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : لا تكرهوا البنات فإنهن المؤنسات ، الغاليات.
The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said: “DO NOT hate the daughters for indeed they are friendly and precious.”
● [سلسلة الأحاديث الصحيحة ٣٢٠٦]

?Advice

Do not befriend someone who is disobedient to his parents⚠️

He has not been loyal to his father and mother, so how will he be loyal to you⚠️?

When you buy a phone for your child, make it absolutely clear,
This is my phone, I can take anytime I want. There will be no passwords on this phone ir security locks.
You cannot take it to your bedroom, or be alone with it. Before bed you'll leave it with me.

May Paradise be written for my parents and all parents of the muslimeen ?

Jabir ibn Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (pbuh) said:

Whoever has three daughters and he accommodates them, show mercy toward them, and supports them, Paradise is definitely guaranteed for him.

Thus, someone asked the Prophet, what if they are two daughters only

He replied, “[He gets that reward,] even if they are [only] two.“

Some of those present believed that had the Prophet been asked about only one daughter, he would have answered that the reward was applicable too. (Authenticated by Al-Albani)

The Father-Daughter Link

Girls who are raised by strong, loving, just, and present fathers grow into emotionally healthy women who are happy to be good wives and good mothers.

Daughters of absent, unjust, or weak fathers grow up to be damaged, broken women who make nightmare wives and dangerous mothers.

Women who follow the modern liberal, promiscuous, hyper-sexual, self-endangering path typically had terrible fathers.

Fathers, raise your daughters well. Give them proper tarbiya.

The Prophet ﷺ said,

عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "مَنْ كُنَّ لَهُ ثَلَاثُ بَنَاتٍ يُؤْوِيهِنَّ وَيَرْحَمُهُنَّ وَيَكْفُلُهُنَّ وَجَبَتْ لَهُ الْجَنَّةُ الْبَتَّةَ قَالَ قِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ فَرَأَى بَعْضُ الْقَوْمِ أَنْ لَوْ قَالُوا لَهُ وَاحِدَةً لَقَالَ وَاحِدَةً."

Jabir ibn Abdullah reported:

The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever has three daughters and he takes care of them, is merciful to them, and maintains them, then Paradise is certainly required for him.” It was said, “O Messenger of Allah, what if he has only two?” The Prophet said, “Even two.” Some people thought that if they had said to him one, the Prophet would have said even one.

Muslim men, if you want to see more good wives and good mothers in the ummah, raise your daughters correctly.

The importance of the father in his daughter's life cannot be overstated.

Being kind and dutiful to one's parents pleases Allah. And when Allah is pleased, He grants us ease.

Do not underestimate your duty to your parents.

The way a husband treats his wife sets a powerful example for the entire family.

If a husband shows love, respect, and kindness towards his wife, it fosters a nurturing environment where positive behaviors are modeled and learned.

As the wife experiences this treatment, she is likely to pass on the same love, respect, and kindness to their daughter.

The way a husband treats his wife has a profound impact on the emotional and psychological well-being of the family.

In turn, the daughter, having grown up witnessing her parents' interactions, will internalize these behaviors and carry them into her own relationships.

If she sees her father treating her mother with care and respect, she will understand that these are the foundations of a healthy relationship.

The way a husband treats his wife influences the next generation's approach to relationships and sets a standard for what is acceptable and desirable.

When the daughter begins dating, the values and behaviors she has learned at home will influence how she interacts with her boyfriend.

If she has seen her mother being treated with dignity and love, she will expect and offer the same in her own relationships.

The way a husband treats his wife not only shapes the immediate family dynamic but also has lasting effects on how children approach their own future relationships.

The importance of how a husband treats his wife cannot be overstated.

It creates a ripple effect that extends beyond the immediate relationship, affecting how the wife feels about herself and how she interacts with others, especially her children.

The way a husband treats his wife is a powerful lesson in respect, love, and partnership, which children absorb and emulate in their own lives.

That amazing moment when someone reminds a Muslim kid "Oh it's ur Birthday today"

And the kid replies "So what, nothing special. In Islam we don't celebrate birthdays"

This is what I call excellent parenting.

May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى‎ reward those parents who instill following the Sunnah in their kids rather than pagan societal trends.

Indeed Messenger [ﷺ] said, 'All of you are sheperds and all of you will be questioned about their flock.'

Um Hamza

Ibn ‘Umar, [may Allāh be pleased with him and his father], said:

“O’ you there! Teach and guide your son in cultivating good manners because, as a parent, you hold a responsibility for him, and in turn, he bears the responsibility of reflecting your kindness.”

Mawsū‘ah ibn Abi ad-Dunyah, 8/78 | Al-Imam ibn Abi Dunyah, [may Allāh bestow mercy upon him].