Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen:

Some people say "I will marry who is not religious, perhaps Allah will guide her at my hands"

And we say:"We are not entrusted with what will happen in the future. As for the future, We do not know about it, it may be you marry her while desiring that Allah will guide her in your hands, However it may be that she may change your state to what she is upon.

Reference: [Sharh al-mumti 'kitab an Nikah (p 14)]

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✨ Sunnan of Yawm al Jumu'āh ✨

‣ Send plenty salutations upon the Prophet ﷺ

‣ Ghusl [ritual washing of the whole body]

‣ Wear your best clothes

‣ Applying perfume [for men]

‣ Cleaning the teeth with siwāk/miswāk [cleaning twig made from the Salvadora persica tree (known as arāk, أراك, in Arabic)]

‣ Going early to the masjid

‣ Reading Sūrah al-Kahf

‣ Lots of Supplication

‣ Make supplication during the Hour of Response (between Asr and Maghrib)

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Note: There are other highly recommended acts which are not mentioned in the post i.e.

• Praying Fajr in congregation and reciting Sūrah as-Sajdah and Sūrah al-Insān in the Fajr prayer,

• Walking to the masjid instead of riding

• Not seperating or stepping up two people sitting together in the masjid,

• Listening to the Imām silently and attentively while delivering his sermon and not indulging in idle talk,

• Praying two units at home after the Friday prayer [or four (two+two) units of prayer in the masjid]

• Sending plenty of salutations upon the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ on the day of Friday and the night before [after (Thursday)] maghrib prayer.

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- She does her morning and evening athkaar and remembers Allah at every point of her day.

- She has a daily wird (portion) of Qur’aan that she reads and ponders upon without fail. 

- She guards her salawaat and prays them properly and on time and with her heart fully present and concentrated. 

- She strives to increase her knowledge of her Lord and His religion daily and doesn’t make excuses. 

- She makes her bed in the morning and keeps her environment and house ?????.

- She keeps herself clean, hygienic, and looking and smelling beautiful and presentable if she’s staying at home.

- She only leaves the if she needs to, and when she does, she maintains the proper legislated hijab.

- She doesn’t talk to non-mahram men unnecessarily.

- She is at the service of her parents and family and she is of her best character with them even when they may be difficult 

▫️With her husband, she is loving, caring, and she obeys him in that which is good, respects him and is grateful to him.

▫️Her friends are also practising Muslimaat and they call each other towards good and forbid each other from evil things that displease Allah. 

- When she is corrected she is not arrogant, and when she is complimented she is not proud. She remembers that all her favours come from her Lord and is not arrogant. 

- She does things for others for the sake of Allah, so if she doesn’t receive thanks she is not affected by it.

- She stays away from idle talk, gossiping and wasting time doing things that will not help her such as watching TV shows or reading Western fiction books.

- She doesn’t spend hours on social media and if she has it she only uses it to benefit herself, and to keep in touch with friends and family 

- With her children, she is not too strict and not too lenient. She is loving and nurturing and sets the proper example for them. 

- When she hears a ruling from the Qur'an and Sunnah she submits to it without questioning or making excuses. 

?May Allah allow us to develop these characteristics and more.

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? Marriage upon Sunnah?

You want a righteous man, but do you know what that means? It means he won't take you out on your birthday, he won't celebrate anniversaries, he will want you to cover according to the Qur'ān and Sunnah, he will expect you to seek knowledge as that's what he will be upon.

He won't allow you to work with men, nor will he let you upload selfies on Instagram or these 'couple pictures' because he's a real man and he has gheerah.

So when you fantasize over beards and trousers above the ankles and say you want to marry a man of the sunnah, know that you must be a woman of the sunnah.

Things like this don't just come. Social media hypes up the idea of marriage through these couple selfies or even couples giving dawah and what not and you think that's marriage? Wake up.

We look at the marriage of Ā'isha  رضي الله عنها with the Prophet ﷺ and we all love the idea of it, but are we willing to give that?

Ā'isha  رضي الله عنها narrated that 3 months would go by and they would not eat a thing other than dates and water

?[Sahih Bukhari].

SubḥānAllāh. Stop sitting here on Instagram dreaming about your perfect life with the perfect man, it is not reality. There's sacrifice and compromise, all for the sake of Allāh.

So many sisters love saying "I'm not going to cook or clean" sis what do you mean? These times after you are married and reality hits you, you're watching tutorials of how to hoover the living room. Marriage is serious.

You're not going to cook? So he's going to spend the day earning a living to feed you and the family and you're not going to cook or clean?
Deluded.

Then, there's the other type. Some sisters, don't want a righteous man, they don't want someone who is 'strict in Deen' rather they want someone who is more easygoing. Well, that's a calamity, at least the first type there's a chance that he may be able to influence you to be on the same path as him, but this lenient one will drag you down with him. What a mess.

"Let's upload pictures together" "Let's go celebrate your birthday" "Jilbab/niqab isn't necessary" "You go out and work"
"we're low on money let's get a loan"
"He's playing Justin Bieber nasheeds at your wedding."
"No problem in Hanging out with male friend"

How will we attain Jannah with this person? And you're here arguing with your parents, the ones that raised you because they won't let you marry him.

Solution?
Correct yourself. Learn your religion. Know Allāh. Act according to the sunnah. Be a woman upon the Qur'ān and Sunnah and work for Jannah with a man upon the Qur'ān and Sunnah. That's how it works.

The example I gave you of Ā'isha  رضي الله عنها and the Prophet ﷺ, which are the best of examples, did they have everything in life? No. Did that take away from the status Allāh granted them? No. SubhanAllah!

It's not a joke. This religion is beautiful and as are the people that act according to it, without taking away anything from it or adding to it. Ponder Over this"

#MuslimMarriageTips

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? Even if you are completely covered, don't post yourself O' Sister!

? A Message Many Sisters Don't Want To Hear.

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A lot of people post on the Facebook and say things like, "My past haunts me" or "I'm depressed" etc. etc.

But do we ever think that Allaah ﷻ  does everything for a reason. You were weak. The past made you strong. You were a rude person. The past made you humble. Past taught you a lot. Now you will think twice before you do some mistakes like you did in the past which will help you now or in future.

It's true that moving on from the past is not easy. Have you ever thought that are you the same person now as you were before? You changed yourself gradually and Allaah ﷻ helped you. So give yourself some credit.

Don't waste your precious time trying to forget the past instead work hard to make your present better. Make yourself engaged in Allaah's prayers. Tell Him everything you want. Do Halal work and earn Halal money. Make your mind busy in good thoughts.

Whenever the past would try to haunt you just calm your mind and seek help from Allaah. Remember that only Allaah can help you.

Allaah does everything for your betterment. You might not see it today but you will realize it one day. Because Allaah ﷻ  Doesn't fail the person who has complete faith on Him.

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رسالة إلى قلبك
A message to your heart:

لا تحزن ولا تفكر كثيراً
Do not be sad and do not over think

فوالله الذي خلقني وخلقك يدبر لك ما سيدهشك ويجبر كسر قلبك
For by Allāh, He Who created me and you He will fix everything for you and give that which will amaze you and mend your broken heart.

تفاعل ولا تيأس إن الله على كل شيء قدير
Be optimistic and do not despair, for indeed Allāh has power over all things. ?

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