It’s crazy how after a breakup, we spend more time obsessing over what our ex is doing than we do focusing on ourselves. It’s like every thought is tied to their every move—what they’re posting, who they’re with. And we get stuck in that loop.

But the hard truth is, the more we focus on them, the further we drift away from the person who needs our attention the most: ourselves.

Relationship is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend. It is not about looking for a perfect because there is not perfect person on earth. It is not about looking for a well off or rich person. Money cannot buy love. A relationship is finding someone who respects you, who cares about you, who understands you, who is proud of having you, who loves the way you are, who is faithful to you, and who knows how to comfort you. ❤️✌️

When a man is gentle, soft, and consistently respects you, that's when your nervous system starts healing. That's why some women have that special glow when they're being loved right in a relationship. It's not the love itself, it's the emotional safety.

It is very difficult,
to forget those things...
because of which,
today we both are not Together!!
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**On you and for you, I could write a book so true, Each page a testament to the light I see in you. But in my heart, a whisper, a fear I cannot show, What fate awaits my words, if you were to say no?

Yet someday, I know, my pen will find its way, To capture all the beauty you bring to every day. For in your grace and smile, a story longs to be told, A tale of simple elegance, in pages bound with gold.**