I’ve decided to stop trying to “save” insecure people

I’ve noticed that my presence and high standards can feel intimidating to those who aren’t ready to grow.

I try to be empathetic. I see their struggles. But I also believe growth requires a spark from within.

When I don’t sense that desire for change, I get impatient and frustrated . Maybe I come off as too intense or harsh as a result. It’s never my intention, but it happens.

In the end, they withdraw and get bitter.

And honestly, it drains me too. It leaves me disappointed, because I wanted to see them win.

So, I’ve chosen to stop playing the savior.

Instead, I’ll invest my energy into people who are ready to grow, driven, and confident in their path.

Because the truth is that you can’t carry someone who refuses to walk.

5 yillik strategiyam va 1 million obunachi yigʻish rejamni eskilar eslasa kerak.

Xullas, shu boʻyicha biroz aniqlik paydo boʻldi menda:

Shu Bozorchi kanalimni katta kanal qilib yubormayman.

Chunki katta kanalning bosimi boʻladi. Odam erkin gapirolmaydi. Litsey davrida ochgan American Boy kanalimda shuni sezgandim.

Oʻrniga YouTube va Instagram orqali katta auditoriya yigʻmoqchiman.

Bu yer esa takoy dushevniy kanal boʻlib qoladi miyaga kelgan har nimani yozish uchun)

Mahallamizda Porsche Taycan lar ochiq havoda, Spark lar esa qulfli garajda turadi.

Balkim risk tolerance va boylik oʻrtasida rostanam bogʻliqlik bordir?

Somewhat similar thing goes with girls, precisely with their dreams and social media.

Those who dream about and put internet photos of luxury lifestyle, fancy cars and houses

Those with "wannabe independent, successful, multimillionare woman" vibes

Are such red flags???

Matoh!

"Matoh"ini ko'z-ko'z qiladigan odamda ichki hotirjamlik yo'q. U haliyam tashqaridan boshqalar uni "tan olishini" kutayotgan yosh bolaga o'xshaydi.

Yangi olgan uyimni yoki mashinamni ko'rsatsam, va nihoyat odamlar meni "qabul qilishadi" deb o'ylashadi.

"Matohlar" maqsad emas jarayonni bir bo'lagi bo'lishi kerak.

Narsalaringizni ko'z-ko'z qilib, o'zingizdan kuchsizlarnigina "lol" qoldirasiz.

Sizdan kuchlilarni narsalari yetarli va ularga buni isbotlashingiz ham shart emas.

O'zingizdan kuchli shaxslar ishonchini, qo'pol qilib aytganda "farosatingiz" bilan qozonasiz.

Tanlov o'zingizda.

#xulosalar

@shahadolimov

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